erm..one of my fren love story makes me wonder, how relationship can be so complicated? isn't love supposed to be sweet n nice, good n beautiful? n it keep me wonder..
from my eyes..or shud i say my point of view,ahaha..cm b'debat plak
love's complicated because we make it complicated..y cant we just keep it simple? well not everybody believed in simplicity..so does that means its actually depends on our very own view? our very own expectation? my expectation of love n ur expectation on the very same subject IS different, right?
for example, u might expect ur love to be right by ur side everyday..u might expect ur relationship to be between just the two of u..but on the other hand, ur love one might expect that u accept or understand that her/his work wont allow he/she to be by urside all the time..and further more she/he might expect that u'll get along with all her/his family..so all these details and expectations shud be discussed..shud be shared in our daily communications process..dun u think so?
well failure to do so will lead to argument..and pain in the ass (ahahah..i mean luka d ati)..and somehow it will add up and lead to a break off..which totally the day when we realized how much communications is vital in a relationship..but then it was too late, aite? it doesnt matter wat kind of relationship u have..communications is the key to make a relationship works..
so do we keep our expectations high or just to the level that it supposed to be? i'll keep my expectations high when i want it to works..but my advise be sure to share it with the love ones..if they dun know anything about it then definitely the relationship not gonna work..dun u think so?
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