Relationship..

Suppostedly i shud be doin my assigment but sumhow i think tis is more important..
So relationship..everybody have their very own view on tis sacret word.so here wat i think of relationship..

First of all u have to understand wat type of relationship ur looking for? Love..friends..life partners..etc etc..then comes another question, wats ur expectations from the relationship..if its love, u might expect to be married to tat person someday (for example).

Then come the tricky part, getting to noe each other..understanding the reason for every smile, wat he/she like or dislikes, wat kind of movie,wat kind of food, where to eat..all tis will somehow bring us closer together.some believe similarity is better than differences..but then from wat i c its not whether u lovethe same food, but its whether the other persons makes u feel complete. In my opinion the main reason u were attracted to the other person is not only the similarities or differences but how u the other persons completes u..

After a few years gone by u come to realized tat u actly noe everything bout him/her..wats next? Tis is where most of relationship fails..relationship fails when u stop figuring out the other person and start acting like its a habit..for example after u sit down in a cafe the 1 question wud b "shyg u nak mkn mee goreng eh?"..tat 'shyg' didnt even open the menu and immediately u assume he/she wanted mee goreng, which might be sumthin tat he/she love to eat but then assuming is not a way relationship goes..y dun u just ask "wat wud u like to have shyg?"..everybody noe in relationship communication worked both ways but then we the one who set limitation to tis so called communication..

For me 'habits' kills relationship..once greeting "good morn shyg" everyday becomes a habit then theres nothing special about wishing good morns anymore..another simple example is kissing good nite, when it becomes a habit then the love just fade..y cant we treat each n everyday as a brand new day for us? Do sumthin new everyday, kiss gd morn instead of gd nite. Suprise with a give once a while..

Well all and all..wat im tryin to say is relationship dun need habits..relationship needs sparkle, need communication, need love..but tat just me..

P/s- heart pls b strong..love pls dun fade..nite2