Law of attraction

Tonite i feel like discussing sumthing i've been holding back for sumtimes..hehe..been busy but these Blessed month Ramadhan i'm quite free..i loike it!

Anyway the topic is law of attraction..wat actually atrract us to another person?some say its a mystery, well its actually just common sense which sumhow we're too overwhelmed by our own feeling we lost our sense (or soo..i belive, anyway tis is my blog so it doesnt matter..hehe)

Everyone have a list of characteristic of sumone we like..tats y sumhow we end up with a person with the same or a few same character all the time. For example im always attracted to sumone taller than me with chinese look face. Myb tats included in my subconsciuos list..we actually cud figure out wat is in our list. But then tat is the first part only..the physical appearance. Tall, short, blond, cute, sexy, 6pac..lol..n the list goes...

The second part is the personality..bubbly, independent, needy,control freak, quite..this is where the attraction goes more intense..we got closer to the "attraction" and then comes the part where we start knowing more about each other. Wat we like, for example i love playing games on my ipad..hehe..n sumone might find tat interesting or not..lol..we attracted to someone who loves to read because we ourself didnt have time to do tat. Its usually an act tat compensate us..make us feel complete. For me i noe im attracted to sumone who love to looked for information, do research..just because i cant..hehe..And most of the time this is the time where wesaid.."owh, i loike tat too"..admitting the same interest making the attraction grows stronger..

But of course the attraction only get stronger when u spend more time nourishing it..and some researcher says it took 3 years for us to b remaining in this state..the attraction state. After 3 years (might be lessssss) tats the time where we started to lost interest..lost the attraction. This is where we started to hear 'Goodbyes'..

So here come the big question..how to keep the attraction alive? Well, if u google it u'll find a lot of advice on doing new things together, finding new experiences..all and all it takes two to tango..u'll first need the "attraction" to dance with u..hehe..i'll suggest nothing since im learning the art myself..but all and all SPEND MORE TIME TOGETHER..tats wats important..to me i guess..

P/s- nites2..hugs n kisses