Expectation

In relationship we have certain expectation from our partner..

We might expect them to be loving

Expect them to be cheerful

Expect them to be always with us

Expect them to be helpful

Expect them to be Supportives

Expect them to be hardworking

Expect them to be cleaning up

Expect them to be faithful..

But Sometimes we have too high expectation..we forgot that our partner is just another human being that is not perfect..they cant be happy all the time or loving and thinking only about us..

Expectations..too high it will ruin the relationship..Which will lead to dissappointment, Frustration..majok n such..communication regarding our own expectation is important..And at the same time lower your expectation, this isn't a filem or telenovella..its living our life which is not perfect but it can be beautiful if we learn to accept the way we are and accept our partner..

P/s- cooking a meal for your partner can be sexy.. Wink2!

Glass

Copied from a frens fb wall..


A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “half empty or half full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: ”How heavy is this glass of water?”

Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.

She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.”

She continued, “The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything.”

It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses. As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don’t carry them through the evening and into the night. Remember to put the glass down!


P/s- let us put the glasses down..chills, lets just live our life.. :)

Promises

People promise a lot of thing..especially when we're in love

Some promised to be together for the rest of their life..

Some promised to go through good and bad times..

Some promised to love forever..

Some promised to wait till the end..

Some promised to never love another..

But..most of the time wats left is just a 'promise'...

Sometimes..some people break their own promise..some just simply forget,ignore or even denied..the question is why promised when u noe u can't really do it in the first place..n we do not noe wats coming ahead of us..nor wats gonna happen in the future..

When people hold on to these promises then there'll be heart broken once they realized its not true..haish..

Dun make promises when your happy or when your sad..or should i recommend no promises at all..we're just mere human..we forgot things..we broke things..n we're not perfect..if its written in ur Qada&Qadar then in shaa Allah, wats written will happen..kate org melayu, kalau dah jodoh x kemana..

##maybe this month is breaking up months for my frens..huhu..stay true to yourself, be patient..its all gonna be ok, in shaa Allah..nites..

Human Error

Its funny..

When the organization long term vision is to become the center of reference and research but..

The organization itself doesn't approved their staff to expend their knowledge as a preparation for the organization so called vision..wats wrong?

Or is the organization taking a easy solution by just hiring a new staff for the job..in the end making the rest of the staff irrelevance to the organization??

So..yeah..its even funnier when ur organization is an education institution..wat when wrong?

P/s- bosan ler..

Sick

Viral infection..headache..sore throat..sick..

But then there are people out there who suffer even worst..

People who have cancer..

People who have heart problems..

People who have genes abnormalities..

People who have to be amputate..

People who have unexplaned condition (like in House series)..

There are people who suffer worst condition than me..

But im me..spoiled..needy..

I need u..sigh~

I just wish u'll always be with me..

Menunggu

Menunggu by Akim


Ku selalu menyakiti dan sering berdusta
Dan membuat kau tinggalkan aku
Pertelingkahan kita selalu tiada akhirnya
Melemaskan mu dalam cinta ku

Menanti mu hingga kau kembali
Kan mencuba menjaga hati mu
Setia dan hidup ku selalu dengan mu
Menemani mu sehingga akhir waktu

Kenangan indah ketika kita bersama
Membuat ku terbayangkan kamu
Aku tahu cinta ku tersemat di hati ku
Aku yakin hanya kau untuk ku

Menanti mu hingga kau kembali
Kan mencuba menjaga hati mu
Setia dan hidup ku selalu dengan mu
Menemani mu sehingga akhir waktu

Aku kan menunggu
Hingga kita kan bersama
Kau akan selalu ku cinta

Menanti mu hingga kau kembali
Kan mencuba menjaga hati mu
Setia dan hidup ku selalu dengan mu
Menemani mu hingga akhir waktu

P/s- there's a promise before..

Prayers

My everyday prayers goes:

Ya Allah, jika dia baik utk ku
Dekat kn dia dgn ku
Jika dia tidak baik utk ku
Kau jauh kn dia dari ku
Kau hilang kn aku dari ingatan nya
Dan buang lah perasaan ini dari hati ku..



P/s - ‎: Someday it will all make sense. For now just Trust, let go, & soon enough you will know.

Salute

No matter wat people said..

For wat ever reasons people arguing..

I salute each n every person who have died defending our country..

For all that worth, they actually pick up their weapons for the country..

And all 'those' people are doing is just plain words with no courage of these heroes..

Talking wont do any good..

Take actions..for wat it worth, actions does speak louder than words..

Dun choose side now..defend our country first..

P/s - ade beran dok?